How to Keep Conversations Flowing Effortlessly with 'Rejoinders'

What Are Rejoinders?
Rejoinders are quick responses or replies to somebody's statement or question in a conversation. They help to keep the conversation flowing, to show interest, give a reaction, or to provide clarification. Rejoinders can be brief comments, questions, or even expressions of surprise or agreement. They are crucial for  showing that you are listening actively.

Here's a list of commonly used rejoinders:
1. Expressing interest:

• "Really?"
• "That's interesting."
• "Tell me more about that."

2. Showing agreement:

• "Exactly."
• "I couldn't agree more."
• "Absolutely."
• "I know what you mean."

3. Expressing surprise:

• "No way!"
• "You're kidding!"
• "You don't say!"
• "I can't believe it!"
• "Unbelievable!"

4. Seeking clarification:

• "What do you mean by that?"
• "Could you explain that further?"
• "I'm not sure I understand."

5. Encouraging someone to elaborate:

• "And then what happened?"
• "How did that make you feel?"
• "What did you do next?"

6. Providing feedback:

• "That's a good point."
• "I see what you're saying."
• "That makes sense."

7. Expressing doubt:

• "Are you sure about that?"
• "I find that hard to believe."
• "Do you really think so?"

8. Offering a different perspective:

• "I see it differently."
• "Have you considered...?"
• "What about...?"

9. Expressing sympathy:

• "I'm (really) sorry to hear that."
• "That must have been tough."
• "I understand how you feel."

10. Confirming what you understood:

• "So, what you're saying is that..."
• "If I understand correctly..."
• "In other words, you're saying..."

Here’s how they can be used in a dialogue:
Sally: "I went to the new restaurant downtown last night."
James: "Really? How was it?"
Sally: "The food was amazing, but it was a bit expensive."
James: "I see. What did you order?"
Sally: "I had the steak, and my friend had the pasta."
James: "Sounds delicious. Would you go there again?"
Sally: Only if I'm in the mood for steak, but otherwise, I'd look for somewhere more affordable.
James: Yeah, I know what you mean. 

As an English learner,  you can use these expressions to  show interest, be more interactive, and respond naturally in English. If you want to see more real-life examples of these expressions, try listening to popular podcasts or talk shows and actively notice when either the host or the guests use rejoinders. If you hear new ones that are not on this list, note them down in your own list or share them in the comments so that others can learn, too.